Confidence Coaching
I can help you find the courage to speak your mind, go after what you want, and face life’s challenges with calm and clarity. Let’s work together.
What is a confidence coach?
A confidence coach helps you break free from self-doubt and the fear of not being “enough,” so you can show up in your life in a way that feels true to you - not how you think you should be.
That might mean speaking up more at work, trusting your gut in relationships, or finally doing the thing you’ve been putting off for years.
As a confidence life coach, I don’t believe in “faking it till you make it.” I help you become the most confident version of yourself - not acting the part or trying to impress others, but truly embodying it. And believe me, that feels very different from just “acting confident” while still doubting everything inside.
To get there, we’ll go beneath the second-guessing and work at the root: the old beliefs, habits, or stories you’ve been carrying that programme your thinking and shape how you show up in every part of your life. Then, we’ll start shifting them for good.
My job isn’t to give you a temporary boost or hype you up for a week. It’s to help you build real, lasting self-belief from the inside out, so you can back yourself in the moments that matter, long after our sessions are done.
What does a confidence coach actually do?
Confidence coaching is a structured, highly personalised process that helps you make lasting changes in how you think, feel, and act.
When we work together, I’ll help you:
- Pinpoint what’s really holding you back: uncover the beliefs, patterns, and fears that fuel self-doubt.
- Understand how those patterns play out: notice where they show up in daily life so you can catch them in the moment.
- Rewire your responses: develop healthier ways of thinking and behaving that feel authentic to you.
- Set clear, actionable goals: create a roadmap for building confidence step by step, without overwhelm.
What low vs. high confidence really looks like
When confidence is low
- Avoids difficult conversations out of fear of conflict
- Constantly second-guesses decisions and seeks reassurance
- Holds back ideas at work or in groups
- Worries about being judged in social settings
- Says “yes” to avoid letting people down
- Overthinks past mistakes and plays them on repeat
- Feels like life is just “happening” to you
- Avoids opportunities for fear of failing
When confidence is high
- Approaches conversations even when it’s uncomfortable, able to speak your mind calmly
- Makes clear decisions and trusts your judgment
- Shares thoughts and ideas openly, even in front of others
- Feels comfortable being yourself and enjoys connecting with others
- Sets boundaries without guilt and respects your own limits
- Learns from mistakes and moves forward without dwelling
- Feels grounded, in control, and able to shape your future
- Takes action despite fear, knowing growth comes from trying
My approach to confidence coaching
Discover & assess
We start with a deep dive into your world, looking at what confidence means to you, where you feel strong, and where you feel stuck. Together, we uncover the beliefs and fears holding you back.
Shift your mindset
Next, we work on rewiring unhelpful thoughts and building a growth mindset. You’ll learn to catch self-doubt in the moment, reframe negative thinking, and strengthen your emotional resilience.
Build competence & skills
Confidence grows through action. I’ll guide you through small, achievable challenges, role-playing exercises, and practical tools to help you feel capable in the situations that matter most.
Overcome fear & self-doubt
We tackle fear head-on, using proven techniques to dismantle hesitation, fear of failure, and overthinking, so you can take bold action with less anxiety.
Step into your confident self
You’ll start showing up differently in your relationships, work, and personal life. Together, we’ll solidify your habits and create a plan to keep your confidence growing long after coaching ends.
What results can I expect?
Here’s what past clients have walked away with:
- Making clear decisions without spiraling into “what ifs”.
- Starting a business, setting boundaries, asking for promotions.
- Contributing ideas in meetings, sharing opinions with friends, or having a long-overdue difficult conversation.
- Shifting from feeling like life is just “happening” to them to actively creating a life that feels good.
- Navigating social anxiety or fear of being judged.
- Feeling more confident in dating or relationships.
- Letting go of perfectionism and chronic people-pleasing.
- Rebuilding self-worth after hard seasons (a breakup, betrayal, or childhood wounds).
"Kristin's coaching sessions have provided so much growth, inspiration, and joy in my life. I feel like a more empowered and assertive version of myself. " - Caitlin Leigh
Flexible packages designed around you
Not every journey needs six months, and not every shift happens in one session. We’ll shape the pace and length of our work based on your life, your goals, and what feels right for where you’re at.
- Packages start at £540 for shorter-term support
- Longer partnerships range up to £1,080
- Flexible payment plans and split payments are available
Book a free consultation with me to talk through your goals and build a coaching package that fits.
What clients say
Alexandra Gugleva
Sofia, Bulgaria
With Kristin's support, I uncovered insights that had been quietly waiting within me - now turned into clear goals I truly want to pursue.
She puts her heart into every session and walks alongside you with genuine care and dedication. I truly believe everyone can benefit from at least one coaching package with Kristin. Her guidance is a powerful companion on any personal journey.
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Caitlin Leigh
Island County WA
Kristin is such a beautiful, supportive, and grounded light. Her coaching sessions have provided so much growth, inspiration, and joy in my life. I feel like a more empowered and assertive version of myself.
Kristin is an extremely gifted coach, guide, mentor who will inspire you to take charge and be the leader of your life.
Ema Gambhira
Austria
Working with Kristin has been a truly transformative experience. She creates a space that feels both structured and deeply personal, allowing me to explore a range of topics while feeling genuinely seen and supported.
Each session brought meaningful insights and a sense of direction. Kristin’s unique balance of compassion and directness made each conversation not only impactful, but deeply empowering.
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Burlingtina Vines
Hoover AL
Kristin was a fantastic life coach! I loved working with her! She was a true blessing to my life. I recommend her to everyone else who wants to make a change.
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Dragonfly De La Luz
San Francisco CA
I can’t recommend Kristin highly enough. She’s the real deal, a natural who is very skilled at what she does, and I am beyond grateful for the privilege of working with her. If you're looking for a coach who will challenge you, support you, and truly transform the way you see yourself and your business, look no further.
I’m walking away from this experience empowered, focused, and ready to elevate my business to the next level! Thank you, Kristin!!!
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Ruby Rayne
Woodinville WA
The questions and whole process felt so intuitive, thought-provoking, and targeted. I got something very important out of this session that I’m genuinely excited about! I’m looking forward to more sessions with Kristin.
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Kelly Blakey
Phoenix AZ
Kristin is able to ask me the most relevant questions to help my subconscious get to the root of the issue I chose to work on. Kristin is helpful, nurturing, and able to hold space. The sessions were very helpful and heartfelt. I experienced a safe space and felt Kristin genuinely cared for.
Ready to feel more confident?
Book a free 60-minute online consultation with me, and we’ll talk about what’s been keeping you stuck and how we can build the kind of confidence that actually lasts.
FAQs
Is this like therapy?
What kinds of tools and techniques will we use?
I’ve tried self-help books and affirmations before. How is this different?
What if I can’t afford a long programme?
What if I’m scared to make changes?
Can you guarantee results?
